Brain intelligence should be in line with emotional intelligence. Then how to develop children's emotional intelligence?
Emotional intelligence is an intelligence that involves the ability to know the feelings of self as well as others and can use that information to direct thoughts and actions.
Well, according to child psychologist, Dr. Rose Mini A.P., M.Psi, in developing emotional intelligence children need to know emotional intelligence is divided into five, namely:
1. The ability to recognize emotions
2. The ability to manage emotions or self-control
3. Self-motivating ability
4. The ability to recognize other people's emotions or empathy
5. Ability to build relationships.
Emotional intelligence is not taken away by the child at birth. For parents' parenting is also influential. It is important for parents to know what attitude should be done to help develop children's emotional intelligence.
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Women who are familiarly called Bunda Romi exemplifies if the child cried without cause, parents do not necessarily yell. Mother Romi suggested to see what happened to the first child.
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"Check the whole body whether there is a wound or not and do not forget to check the diaper, it turns out the child is crying because the diaper is wet and makes him uncomfortable, while changing the diaper we are talking 'wet diapers yes yes, son So not comfortable ya darling,' like The point is to train the child to know what he does not like and what he likes, "explained Bunda Romi.
It was delivered in the launch of MoriCare + Prodiges Multiple Intelligence Play Plan, located at Kalcare, Lotte Shopping Avenue 3rd floor, Kuningan, South Jakarta, and written on Friday (20/11/2015).
In addition, if parents want their children to grow as a figure that is cheap smile so it can build relationships with others, so do not just ask him to smile at others. It is more appropriate for parents to practice and show the child to be friendly, especially to a known person.
"In short, what we want our children to do, must start with the parents themselves, we have to set a good example if we want children to behave well," advised Mother Romi.
Well, the combination of parenting parenting and child's natural intelligence will help children grow into the seeded generation.
